Coaching & Emotionale Intelligenz: Wachse selbstbestimmt.

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that everyone likes you but yourself.

Rita Mae Brown

You as a company You as a person

Welcome to our page “Coaching for You as a Person”. This is the best place for you if you are striving for deeper self-understanding, personal growth and emotional balance. As coaches for Emotional Intelligence, we accompany you on your journey to a fulfilled self and a subsequently self-empowered life.

Holistic Coaching: More than just emotions

We live and work with the conviction that every person is unique and value the depth of genuine, authentic relationships. Our approach is to see you in your entirety of body, mind and soul – with all your emotions, roles, needs and challenges. Through mindfulness, empathy and a deep understanding of the subtleties of human emotions, we offer you a safe space in which you can observe, explore, reflect and develop.

Practical methods for your growth

Our goal-oriented approach, focused on practical application and present experience, includes proven methods from depth psychology approaches such as IFS (Internal Family Systems) and Hakomi as well as values-oriented and systemic coaching. In this way, we can not only support you in understanding and managing your emotions. We also help you to gain deeper insights into your personality, actively shape relationships and build resilience in everyday life.

So whether you’re going through a period of change, want to resolve conflict or explore your inner potential, we’re here to guide you. Are you ready? We look forward to meeting you.

Personal Development

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Do you often feel controlled by external factors and ask yourself "Who am I beyond all my roles?"

Conflict Coaching

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Do you feel overwhelmed by your emotions and out of control in conflict situations

This is what our journey together could look like

Complimentary Discovery Session

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Let’s find out together whether we are a good match!

Choose your coach and reach out to on of us directly for a 45-minute complimentary discovery session.

In our first meeting, we will get to know each other personally – curiously and without obligation. Here you can tell us about your concerns and we can share more about our approach.

*Please note: The appointment is free of charge if you keep it or cancel it up to 24 hours in advance. Otherwise, a cancellation fee of €50 applies.

First session: Goal Clarification

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Your first step towards change!

In our first 90-minute session, we focus on your specific goal and evaluate time and resources together to ensure that it is both motivating and realistic. You are in control: you set the direction and we support you with our expertise.

Please note: Cancellations and postponements are free of charge up to 24 hours in advance. After that, we charge the full hourly rate. This principle applies to all booked sessions.

Second session: Goal-oriented Coaching

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Exploring the depths of your unconscious!

In our second session, we explore your topic in depth and in an experience-oriented way. You remain in control and determine the path, supported by our empathy, mindfulness and variety of methods. Your contribution? Openness and curiosity. Finally, we will reflect on what you have experienced: your feelings, the insights you have gained and the significance of this experience for your goal.

Schedule follow-up session(s)

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Your journey, your pace!

At the end of each session, we talk together about planning your next steps. We focus on your individual needs and wishes. It’s up to you to decide how quickly and intensively you want to progress. This flexibility allows you to design your coaching in harmony with your life.

Our clients

We thank you from the bottom of our hearts

Laya P.

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Life Coaching

I want to express my deep appreciation for Darina’s support and guidance. She has played a meaningful role in my personal development. With warmth, openness, and a compassionate approach, she helped me learn to treat myself with more kindness.

She placed great value on my thoughts, emotions, and goals, creating a space where I felt seen, accepted, and understood.

Thanks to her support, I was able to make real, positive changes in my life. I wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone looking for professional yet deeply empathetic support.

Christin K.

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Life Coaching

The IFS-based coaching experience was truly enriching for me. What stood out most was Darina’s compassionate way of creating a safe space where I could open up and work on my goals. Thanks to her support, I now feel more empowered and better equipped to face life’s challenges. Thank you, Darina, for your outstanding work and your deeply sensitive approach!

Mark H.

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Business Coaching

When you can’t see the forest for the trees, sometimes the best question to ask is simply: Where am I? My answer? In the forest. And just like that, I started seeing the trees again—but only because I had Darina by my side. With her calm clarity and grounded guidance, she helped me reconnect with my own answers. Thank you, Darina, for the space you held and the way you led.

Alex Z.

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Supervision

I’ve known Darina Dreke since our coaching training days. Even back then, in our practice sessions, she impressed me with her emotional intuition, sharp analytical and systemic thinking, and her refreshingly warm personality. With grace and precision, she helped me reconnect with myself and release inner tensions.

Over the years, she has continued to deepen these strengths and now draws from a wide range of coaching tools. Her work supports clients in understanding their inner states and developing paths toward a freer, more relaxed self.

I keep coming back to her when I want to reflect or work through inner triggers. Her support is always a gift. Thank you, Darina — I wholeheartedly recommend her.

Aylin Z.

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Supervision

The coaching sessions with Darina have been incredibly helpful for my personal growth. What I find so special about Darina is how appreciative, open, and understanding she is as a coach – which allowed me to discover new perspectives. I’m also impressed by how quickly she was able to build a foundation of trust through her presence and approach. On top of that, she works with well-founded methods from psychotherapy and handled the wide range of topics I brought up with great skill and confidence. Thank you, Darina!